Male Escort Melbourne – 20 June 2024



“A man loves it when she needs to slow down.
A boy playing at being a man, does not.


The essence of the masculine is gifted by her opening.
When she opens to him, opens to life, opens to love…
She radiates.


It is her radiance that is the nectar he seeks.


Yet flowers open and blossom when they are ready.
They cannot be forced.


We live in a world now where that gentle opening is not being truly revered.


Not by him. Not by her.


Freeze. Dissociation. Fawn.
Shame. Overwhelm. Avoidance.
Neurosis. Anxiety. Shut-down.


All symptoms of a feminine opening too fast
Or experiencing too much negative feedback
For not opening fast enough.


She overrides her natural flowering when she tries to please him
When she thinks it’s wrong
That she will be rejected
Unwanted and unloved
If she asked for the presence, care and space
To feel her heart and body unwind.


A man knows this, deeply.
A man loves this, passionately.
A man protects this, fiercely.


Because it is her opening that he seeks
And he knows that it is only ever genuine
When it is given the space to be embodied.


There is no rush for a powerful man
No rush to physical intimacy
No rush to orgasm
No rush to relationship


The medicine is in the presence and patience
The slowing down
The ecstasy of the moment-by-moment unfurling
The dripping of her heart and desire as it overflows in gratitude
For him who says:
“I’m here… take your time… your opening is my pleasure.”


This is the blueprint of the masculine and feminine
That is needed if we are ever going to venture into a future
Where union, healing and evolution
Is our shared sacred mission.”


– Damien Bohler  





That’s a beautiful poem, isn’t it. And here’s another one:





“Certainty in men creates relief in the feminine.


When he is certain of what he wants and where he is going, particularly in regards to her and his choosing of her, she can relax into trusting him in his confidence and self-assuredness.


There is immense power in masculine certainty.


His directed, dark edge arises from this place and elevates a man to a status of high quality… regardless of who he is and what he does, this is one of the six essential masculine polarities that create an exceptional man.


Certainty is the energy that drives a man to success in the world, to become an exceptional lover attuned to her body, his every touch filled with assured, relaxed presence, and the kind of partner that provides the space for a woman to flourish in the fullness of her radiance.

Uncertainty in men, however, is agony to the feminine.


Because it means she has to step in and take control to create the conditions for herself to feel safe… Which means her body will tighten and close to him, even if she otherwise likes and wants him.


When most women are with a man, they ache to let go to him.


To relinquish control, to let go of needing to anticipate the future and to relax into deep non-linear time, kairos, in sensual surrender to this moment.


A man provides that possibility with his certainty.


Certainty is when a man steps into his rightful position as “master of space and time”… chronos, linear time, his domain… where things are certain, predictable and heading in a known direction.


The dance between these two polarities… certainty and surrender… provide an exquisite experience for both beings as they engage this co-creative interplay.


This is a generative dynamic, creating more… more trust, more love, more bliss, more arousal.


Certainty… a much better word than dominance… representing the beneficial quality of energy and attention, without the shadowy undertone.”


– Damien Bohler


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