Leo Dale

The Love Doctor’s private life

12 June 2020 | Male Escort Melbourne

As a professional male escort and companion for women, I have over the years become very busy – and a lot of weeks it seems I work eight days per week! 


I am fully committed to making women feel great, and I love being able to make a positive difference to the world, one smile at a time.


One question I’ve occasionally been asked, is “Do you have a girlfriend?” and I wrote a blog about this early last year, and all I can say now is…


Well, how life can change. As yes, I now have a girlfriend. Yes, it is something I never thought would happen.


The Love Doctor is in love!


Oh, how our views on what is possible can change! I wrote a few things in that blog last year – mostly about how life might not be so happy for a female partner of a male escort – that I’ve now found are simply not true. My girlfriend is very, very happy, as am I. She is incredibly proud of me and my work, and loves that every time that I have a booking, I am making one of her sisters from another mister very happy! When we are together, life is wonderful for both of us. And even when I’m at work, life is wonderful for both of us too.


Some people may wonder how this could be and how she can be comfortable with me seeing female clients. All I can say is that everyone is unique, and everyone has their own views, beliefs, feelings, and ways of thinking. My girlfriend and I have evolved and experienced views that are reflected in the dynamics of our relationship – what is possible (and right) for us is unimaginable for some people.


It was a summer’s day, in January this year, when I happened to be checking out a market in St Kilda, and I had one of my pugs with me. I met Phoebe, who was also at the market, walking her pug as well. We got talking, and we just really clicked. We went to a nearby cafe and had coffee together, and tea, and talked for hours.


It was love at first sight.


I told her what I do as my profession and she was okay with it, and we just got talking about things, and well… the rest is history.


An important thing to note here is that I am still your male escort and companion. I love being here for women, this will never change, and my work will continue indefinitely. My girlfriend is totally, more than okay with what I do.


So what does this change for my former clients, my many regular clients, and my future clients? 


Nothing. It doesn’t change a thing.


I love providing the service that I do, and my girlfriend loves that I do as well. 


We both know that sex can also lead to feelings, particularly so with me being an escort and companion for females. My girlfriend and I are both okay with this and I make sure to provide you with an experience that is not just a physical experience. I want you to feel loved and like the only woman in the Universe when you are with me.


I have written before about Sex and feelings.


I am a very sensual, passionate, loving person, with so much love to give and I have a few clients who I have a special connection with.


It is possible to show love, and to love, without being in love.


If you develop some feelings for me, that’s okay, as long as they are beneficial for you, as long as you can keep things in perspective, and understand the boundaries of our escort/client relationship. For some clients, who may fantasise about marrying me and having my children – This can’t happen. I never lead clients to think there is something that there isn’t, and so we need to make sure you understand this.


There are quite a few escorts, male, female and non gender conforming, who also have a partner. This is okay! They may not talk about this openly, and it can be considered professional to not mention to their clients that they have a partner, so please respect each escort’s privacy, though it can also be considered professional to be open about this – and like I’ve said in my previous blog, I’m an open book, baby.


Honesty is a quality that I value immensely, and I’m always honest, so thought I’d share this. I’ve told a few of my clients already – even though as I’ve said, it doesn’t affect the relationship I have with any of my clients – and more than 95% of them have said they are so, so so happy for me, wish me all the best, and that they will continue to book me like they planned, and enjoy the wonderful times we have together. 


Fewer than 5% have said they don’t like the idea of seeing me while I’m in a relationship (which by the way is a forever relationship!) and said they may see me in the future, or they may not.


If you’ve seen the TV show Gigolos, (about real life male escorts) you’ve been introduced to quite a few male escorts who also have a girlfriend, in particular, Vin Armani. Some are even married, and have children. This is all okay too! Vin Armani, during the time of filming, was very busy as a male escort and in high demand, even though his clients knew he has a girlfriend. Like I said, I’ve told many of my clients already, and most of them are happy for me, and will continue to see me.


If you don’t like the sound of this blog, then you don’t have to read it. I am who I am, you are who you are, and you have the choice to meet with me, or not. I love my girlfriend, we are in love, and we have what is the most amazing relationship for both of us. A lot of people can’t imagine how we could commit to each other in our situation, but like I said, everyone is different, and this is what works for us.


In fact, Phoebe and I have also started working together, as Melbourne Couples Escorts, to join together in being able to offer an exclusive service to those who may be ready to expand the possibilities on what they thought possible, and reach an even higher lever of connectedness and love in their relationships.


How do we do this? Phoebe and I are non-monogamous – which if you view the diagram below, can be incredibly complex – but for us, it’s not. It’s just how we are. We are we.

Our love for each other is so passionate, indescribable, complete – it’s true love, and we are Unbreakable.


As much as I love being in your life, as your male escort and companion, and having you in my life – I still do deserve to be able to have a private life.


One cannot serve from an empty vessel, and me being in a relationship also helps me to be loved, nurtured, and to better serve you! I love being able to provide everything that you desire.


I am very happy to let you know that I am happy in love – and still always here to make YOU feel nurtured, loved, exhilarated – and happy.




*EPILOGUE – A few years Post-blog – After being in a relationship for a while, it came to it’s conclusion, and I’ve realised that I’m much happier being single. I’m polyamorous, I have so much love to give, more than one person could handle.


I cannot be tamed. I am who I am, and I cannot be squashed into a box.


That’s a good thing.


I have so much love to give, and I love sharing all of myself with you…




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